Life is too short for negative things:-) the three stages of life : mountain is mountain, water is water; mountain is not mountain, water is not water; mountain is still mountain, water is still water. By Qingyuan xingsi(Zen master) 看山是山，看水是水；看山不是山，看水不是水；看山任然是山，看水任然是水。（almost there or try to be in the third stage):-) INFP